Loss

Some people come into our lives at the right time. And when the time is right, they leave.

People play a very important role in shaping our lives. Every person we meet, constitute a part of our life, no matter how short their stay is. Where we end up or who we end up with can often depend on specific people we come across in particular places. But 'ending up' is not final. We can never say "I 'ended up' doing this job." because we don't know for sure. We might 'end up' doing something else. And while it's difficult to deal with everything we lose in this ghost ride called life, we can have faith; belief, that whatever happens, whether good or bad, occurs for the best until God reveals to us what the 'best' truly is. But that also means never looking back and walking forward without turning our heads. But sometimes, that's the only way.

We are obliged to lend our ears to a whole lot of people saying, "This is how life is!", "It's a part of life.", "Be strong!". However, if we are lucky enough, we will have people who are eager to listen. To the rising of our heartbeats. To our pain and struggles. Our heart needs to be heard. A lot more than we think. 

So don't just resign to saying 'this is life', but allow yourself to feel the pain. You're not alone. This is where our biggest enemy, time, comes in handy. It may not heal the wounds completely, but with time, we learn to live with it. 

This post is a part of  Blogchatter Half Marathon 2023.

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